Things To Do To Make Your Husband Feel Special
You will motivate your husband to achieve great things and be his best when you let him know you think he is wonderful. You have the ability to tear him down or inspire him to greatness. While there are countless things to do to make your husband feel special, here are a few to get you started:
Look at him and really listen when he talks- without interrupting or arguing. Giving him your full attention when he speaks gives him an emotional boost and increases his confidence levels. Many times when a man says “My wife doesn’t understand me,” he means, “She does not pay attention when I talk.”
Only say good things about him to others-doing so when he is within hearing distance is particularly good. While you do not want to overdo this, here are some ideas:
Tell your children what a wonderful dad they have and discuss the things he does that makes him a great father or tell your parents how he put up a shelf for you or tell your friends how he always keeps your car filled with gas.
Discover what things are important to him and make them a priority. Does he like to eat as soon as he comes home from work? Does a messy house make him irritable? Focus your efforts on those things that matter most to him-it will probably save you time and frustration.
Look attractive for him. This may mean fixing up your hair, putting on make-up, or wearing clothes that he likes to see you in-whatever it is that makes him want to look at you.
Cook his favorite meal. You can say something like “You have worked so hard this week-I would like to show you my appreciation by cooking your favorite foods. I was thinking you would probably like grilled chicken and potatoes. Does that sound good to you or would you like something else?”
Watch his favorite TV shows or movies with him without constantly interrupting or criticizing them. If you talk during the show-it will annoy him, if you find fault, he will take it personally. If it is done right, watching TV can be a powerful way of connecting with your man.
When you choose to make your husband feel special, you are laying the foundation for him to rise above mediocrity and accomplish great things in his life. You do no not need to spend a lot of time and effort- simply have the mindset that he is important to you and let it come out through your words and actions.
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