My Husband Blames Me For Everything
What can you do when, no matter how hard you try to be a good wife, you can’t seem to do anything right in your husband’s eyes. He seems to blame you for everything that goes wrong.
This is a sentiment that’s echoed by numerous wives. There are lots of reasons why your husband may be treating you wrongly- from low confidence levels, to depression to being dissatisfied in his relationship with you. Here are some thought on this issue.
Ask God for wisdom on you can best help him (James 1:5). Whether your man is just going through a tough time or he is dealing with chronic low self-esteem, God will show you the best way to respond to him.
While you can not directly change him, you can change yourself and how you respond to him. Sometimes all it takes is a few simple adjustments on the wife’s part, other times it is more complex.
Feelings of not being appreciated or important, lack of physical intimacy, problems on the job etc. can all be factors in how he treats you.
If your husband is experiencing frustration in an area of your relationship, it may crop up as problems in other areas of your marriage.
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My husband blames me for things before we were even married and still today, new things old things and everything in between. He blames me for his bankruptcy before we were married, his divorce, his affair on me, financial stuff, etc. He tells people behind my back and then I find some of it out and ask him in which he denies, but it keeps happening! I’m so hurt that everything he blames me for he is telling all of these different people! I want to be a Godly wife but it hurts. Our marriage is hurting because of his lies and his affair that he had 2yrs ago. When will he grow up? We will be homeless in 15 days and he is not concerned. Ugh what do I do, we have 3 kids at home and his 3 girls are with their mom.
It would probably be wise to get professional help. That’s a lot for one person to deal with. If you attend a church, your pastor could probably help you or at least point you in the right direction.