Comments for Marriage Tips For Women http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips Fri, 25 Jun 2010 13:31:12 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 Comment on Marriage Tips: Exercising to Improve Your Marriage by Lorene http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/marriage-tips-exercising-to-improve-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-211 Lorene Fri, 25 Jun 2010 13:31:12 +0000 http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/?p=79#comment-211 Great idea! Great idea!

]]> Comment on Your Husband Needs You to Trust Him by Lorene http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/your-husband-needs-you-to-trust-him/comment-page-1/#comment-210 Lorene Fri, 25 Jun 2010 13:30:30 +0000 http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/?p=377#comment-210 Thank you Tiana- your comment is very encouraging. Thank you Tiana- your comment is very encouraging.

]]> Comment on Marriage Tips: Exercising to Improve Your Marriage by tiana http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/marriage-tips-exercising-to-improve-your-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-209 tiana Sun, 20 Jun 2010 04:00:29 +0000 http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/?p=79#comment-209 My husband and I have began excercising together. It's a great "couple's time" and friendly competition. It gives us just a bit of one on one time. Yet we reduce stress and give each other praise. Pumping up confidence. My husband and I have began excercising together. It’s a great “couple’s time” and friendly competition. It gives us just a bit of one on one time. Yet we reduce stress and give each other praise. Pumping up confidence.

]]> Comment on Your Husband Needs You to Trust Him by tiana http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/your-husband-needs-you-to-trust-him/comment-page-1/#comment-208 tiana Sun, 20 Jun 2010 03:54:33 +0000 http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/?p=377#comment-208 Hello, I truly appreciate your advice. I needed Christian advice. Not some racy, out of touch, out of line magazine columnist, "GIRL, YOU DON'T NEED HIM," advice. haha The truth is we need each other and I need other ways to go about things in a level headed manner. You help me refocus, and sighhhhhhh. Relief. thank you. Hello, I truly appreciate your advice. I needed Christian advice. Not some racy, out of touch, out of line magazine columnist, “GIRL, YOU DON’T NEED HIM,” advice. haha The truth is we need each other and I need other ways to go about things in a level headed manner. You help me refocus, and sighhhhhhh. Relief. thank you.

]]> Comment on Understanding How Men Think: Dressing to Excite Him by Amylee Davis http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/understanding-how-men-think-dressing-to-excite-him/comment-page-1/#comment-207 Amylee Davis Fri, 21 May 2010 18:08:58 +0000 http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/?p=130#comment-207 Okay Miss INTERESTING. I don't know who you think you are, but I am certainly not a bored housewife with no other options and no other skills or interests outside of the home. I would dare you to stand up to me and say things like this to MY face or any other woman who wants to please her husband. We fight for what we want these days sweety so back off and go somewhere else! I am a 25 year old married woman. I have a job as a waitress, which I'm not required to have I just LOVE people and serving and the schedule is super flexible so I can work or take off whenever, no kids, my favorite things to do are cook gourmet meals, sing and clean or organize anything. I have a huge family of all powerful, independent women. This includes my 24 year old sister who is a MARINE, her daughter who can do and be anything she wants someday as all of us are, a 20 year old sister who is a fierce lesbian, a 50 year old mother who has gone through hell and back, still going to school and starting a new career as we speak and myself, I've never been a huge fan of men in general because they really don't deserve my time, anyone who knows me will tell you I'm vane and confident to a fault. Then there is my husband, who I want FOREVER! All I want is for the both of us to be happy forever. Seems like a fairytale dream but the more happy couples who have been married for years I talk to make it seem possible, it just takes a lot of work and selflessness (which naturally, I do not posses). MY husband is a USMC Firefighter, loves cars, fishing and beautiful women (ME!) He's a mans man all the time but when he's with just me and the girls he's our big teddy bear who would do anything to make us giggle AND fight to the death for us. Basically, I really did find the perfect man in him. (I'm sure every truly happy and devoted wife would say the same thing) He will do ANYTHING to keep me happy and sane, even if that includes me getting frumpy, losing interest in sex, leaving everything for him to do because I'm too lazy to care, nagging and basically giving up on our happy future that we promised each other we would never give up on. To me that man deserves all my hard work and effort. He is MY jewel and I will try to NEVER give up making him happy. He would never give up on me! So he has different values on sex than me like ALL men have than women, so what! It's something we spend a lot of time together with and we both feel good doing it. I want him to watch chick flicks like, "The Notebook" with me and take me to Zoo's, buy diamonds and sit on the beach with me for hours doing NOTHING when all he wants to do is anything else. He would never do any of it if I wasn't there but it makes me happy so he smiles through it and enjoys watching me smile. Our favorite activities... Anything to keep us happy together for as long as we live. We will try Any and Everything. To whomever is writing these helpful tricks and ideas, I appreciate it. Ignore these ignorant woman who are not happy and whole. I love trying new things and I have recently forgotten how sexy my husband finds me even if I haven't been finding myself very attractive. I know I am a beautiful blond haired blue eyed woman but even I don't feel it sometimes. I will be testing out some of these ideas in my own way and I'm excited for the both of us because I'm ready to FEEL sexy again. My moods change like the wind every couple months or so, so I've always got to keep on my toes. I love this site and I will be using it for a guide in the future if I'm ever feeling frumpy and lazy like I'm on the verge of right now. It really is easy to get stuck. Thanks again. Amylee Davis I'd love for you to find me on facebook, INTERESTING. I believe I can make you think differently. Okay Miss INTERESTING. I don’t know who you think you are, but I am certainly not a bored housewife with no other options and no other skills or interests outside of the home. I would dare you to stand up to me and say things like this to MY face or any other woman who wants to please her husband. We fight for what we want these days sweety so back off and go somewhere else! I am a 25 year old married woman. I have a job as a waitress, which I’m not required to have I just LOVE people and serving and the schedule is super flexible so I can work or take off whenever, no kids, my favorite things to do are cook gourmet meals, sing and clean or organize anything. I have a huge family of all powerful, independent women. This includes my 24 year old sister who is a MARINE, her daughter who can do and be anything she wants someday as all of us are, a 20 year old sister who is a fierce lesbian, a 50 year old mother who has gone through hell and back, still going to school and starting a new career as we speak and myself, I’ve never been a huge fan of men in general because they really don’t deserve my time, anyone who knows me will tell you I’m vane and confident to a fault. Then there is my husband, who I want FOREVER! All I want is for the both of us to be happy forever. Seems like a fairytale dream but the more happy couples who have been married for years I talk to make it seem possible, it just takes a lot of work and selflessness (which naturally, I do not posses). MY husband is a USMC Firefighter, loves cars, fishing and beautiful women (ME!) He’s a mans man all the time but when he’s with just me and the girls he’s our big teddy bear who would do anything to make us giggle AND fight to the death for us. Basically, I really did find the perfect man in him. (I’m sure every truly happy and devoted wife would say the same thing) He will do ANYTHING to keep me happy and sane, even if that includes me getting frumpy, losing interest in sex, leaving everything for him to do because I’m too lazy to care, nagging and basically giving up on our happy future that we promised each other we would never give up on. To me that man deserves all my hard work and effort. He is MY jewel and I will try to NEVER give up making him happy. He would never give up on me! So he has different values on sex than me like ALL men have than women, so what! It’s something we spend a lot of time together with and we both feel good doing it. I want him to watch chick flicks like, “The Notebook” with me and take me to Zoo’s, buy diamonds and sit on the beach with me for hours doing NOTHING when all he wants to do is anything else. He would never do any of it if I wasn’t there but it makes me happy so he smiles through it and enjoys watching me smile. Our favorite activities… Anything to keep us happy together for as long as we live. We will try Any and Everything.
To whomever is writing these helpful tricks and ideas, I appreciate it. Ignore these ignorant woman who are not happy and whole. I love trying new things and I have recently forgotten how sexy my husband finds me even if I haven’t been finding myself very attractive. I know I am a beautiful blond haired blue eyed woman but even I don’t feel it sometimes. I will be testing out some of these ideas in my own way and I’m excited for the both of us because I’m ready to FEEL sexy again. My moods change like the wind every couple months or so, so I’ve always got to keep on my toes. I love this site and I will be using it for a guide in the future if I’m ever feeling frumpy and lazy like I’m on the verge of right now. It really is easy to get stuck. Thanks again. Amylee Davis I’d love for you to find me on facebook, INTERESTING. I believe I can make you think differently.

]]> Comment on My Husband Blames Me For Everything by Lorene http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/my-husband-blames-me-for-everything-that-is-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-206 Lorene Sat, 15 May 2010 15:15:31 +0000 http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/?p=40#comment-206 It would probably be wise to get professional help. That's a lot for one person to deal with. If you attend a church, your pastor could probably help you or at least point you in the right direction. It would probably be wise to get professional help. That’s a lot for one person to deal with. If you attend a church, your pastor could probably help you or at least point you in the right direction.

]]> Comment on My Husband Blames Me For Everything by Kim Savage http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/my-husband-blames-me-for-everything-that-is-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-205 Kim Savage Sat, 15 May 2010 00:02:53 +0000 http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/?p=40#comment-205 My husband blames me for things before we were even married and still today, new things old things and everything in between. He blames me for his bankruptcy before we were married, his divorce, his affair on me, financial stuff, etc. He tells people behind my back and then I find some of it out and ask him in which he denies, but it keeps happening! I'm so hurt that everything he blames me for he is telling all of these different people! I want to be a Godly wife but it hurts. Our marriage is hurting because of his lies and his affair that he had 2yrs ago. When will he grow up? We will be homeless in 15 days and he is not concerned. Ugh what do I do, we have 3 kids at home and his 3 girls are with their mom. My husband blames me for things before we were even married and still today, new things old things and everything in between. He blames me for his bankruptcy before we were married, his divorce, his affair on me, financial stuff, etc. He tells people behind my back and then I find some of it out and ask him in which he denies, but it keeps happening! I’m so hurt that everything he blames me for he is telling all of these different people! I want to be a Godly wife but it hurts. Our marriage is hurting because of his lies and his affair that he had 2yrs ago. When will he grow up? We will be homeless in 15 days and he is not concerned. Ugh what do I do, we have 3 kids at home and his 3 girls are with their mom.

]]> Comment on The Secret to a Happy Marriage by Jessica Fontenot http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/the-secret-to-a-happy-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-204 Jessica Fontenot Fri, 30 Apr 2010 17:36:57 +0000 http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/?p=725#comment-204 We cannot live without men. We need to stay humble and don't try to run them...period. But if we are honest in prayer, God will anoint our men to be the husbands we need them to be. For as the Bible says "A wise woman builds her house, but a foolish woman plucketh it down with her hands." So let us remember the hierarchy: God, man, woman. "For God is the head of man as MAN IS THE HEAD OF WOMAN." Hence, we are not the head, they are. We cannot live without men. We need to stay humble and don’t try to run them…period. But if we are honest in prayer, God will anoint our men to be the husbands we need them to be. For as the Bible says “A wise woman builds her house, but a foolish woman plucketh it down with her hands.” So let us remember the hierarchy: God, man, woman. “For God is the head of man as MAN IS THE HEAD OF WOMAN.” Hence, we are not the head, they are.

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]]> Comment on How To Get your Husband To Listen To You by Lorene http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/understanding-how-men-think/comment-page-1/#comment-196 Lorene Sun, 21 Feb 2010 23:52:57 +0000 http://victorious-woman.com/marriage-tips/?p=34#comment-196 I am sorry- this blog is geared towards women who are working on their marriage "alone." In many cases- the husband really doesn't care what his wife wants or doesn't. One of our goals is to simply help the wife to get the husband to a place where he cares and then she can proceed from there. If your spouse and you are both working on your marriage there many other good marriage blogs out there that will address both your needs. I wish you the best! I am sorry- this blog is geared towards women who are working on their marriage “alone.” In many cases- the husband really doesn’t care what his wife wants or doesn’t.

One of our goals is to simply help the wife to get the husband to a place where he cares and then she can proceed from there. If your spouse and you are both working on your marriage there many other good marriage blogs out there that will address both your needs. I wish you the best!

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