How Does Your Husband See You? As A Frumpy Wife or a Sexy Lady
After almost 20 years of marriage, sometimes I find myself getting too comfortable. I get the attitude that it’s no longer necessary to work on my marriage. I skip my exercise program, quit looking attractive for my husband and fail to appreciate him and the things he does for me.
Security is important in a marriage. I need to feel confident that he loves me and will not be chasing after a younger woman, however I also feel that too many women are divorced because they took their husbands and their marriages for granted.
It’s important to have a healthy balance in our marriage. On one side of the spectrum is an unhealthy fear that if we don’t do everything just right we will lose our husbands. The other extreme is total apathy-women quit caring what they look like, they become frumpy and stop doing those things that attract their husbands to them.
Don’t allow yourself to operate in fear but do keep doing those things that keep the romance alive in your marriage. Whether you have been married 1 year or 30 years, consider which side of the spectrum you are on and what changes you need to make to maintain a healthy balance.
